What to Do

Emotional and Behavioral Signs to Be Aware Of:

• Sudden changes in mood (e.g., anxiety, sadness, anger, withdrawal)

• Difficulty sleeping, nightmares, or changes in appetite

• Avoiding certain people or places without clear reason

• Loss of interest in school, friends, or favorite activities

• Frequent unexplained headaches or stomachaches, or other unexplained discomfort

• Lowered self-esteem, isolation, or signs of self-harm

• Returning to earlier behaviors (e.g., bedwetting or thumb sucking)

• Using language or behaviors that seem overly mature for their age

• Overly compliant or “perfect” behavior

Physical Signs That May Need Medical Attention:

• Irritation, redness or bruising in private areas

• Ongoing bathroom-related pain or accidents

• Unusual discharge or frequent UTIs

• Persistent stomachaches or headaches

• Any diagnosis of a sexually transmitted infection in a child

These signs don't always point to abuse, but they are a signal that a child may need additional support. Knowing what to look for helps you stay tuned in to your child’s well-being and respond with care.

What You Can Do

If your child shares something concerning, or if you suspect something has happened, you're not alone. We encourage you to explore these supportive resources:

• How to Respond if a Child Discloses Abuse
  • A step-by-step guide to listening with care and responding appropriately.

• Tips for Parents and Guardians When Talking with Youth

  • Helpful ways to start conversations, build trust, and stay connected with your child.

• Submit an Anonymous Report
  • If your concern involves a situation that may have occurred at our facility or within one of our programs, you can use our confidential form to ensure your observations are heard and addressed promptly. 

Know. See. Respond. Ensuring the safety and well-being of every child in our care is our top priority.